Judah’s Second Birthday (and First Party)

January 27, 2010

Judah had his very first birthday party last Saturday, a lovely Thomas-the-Tank-Engine-themed affair. Or, as Judah would call it, a “toot toot” party.

A child’s birthday party is a lot of work. More than I anticipated, to be quite honest. But the good news is that the party’s over, the house is back in order, and even though we had four last-minute cancellations (oh the perils of a birthday in the middle of cold-and-flu season), a wonderful time was had by all. (Including the birthday boy’s mama.)

The other bit of good news is that a child’s birthday party can be described almost entirely in pictures and one-word descriptors. Observe:

Food.

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Friends.

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Loot.

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Cake.

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See? And you now have a perfect idea of how wonderful Judah’s party was. And I barely had to write a thing.

The best part? His lola Becky (AKA Grandma, AKA Wo-wa, AKA Jared’s mom) was here for the big event! We had a great few days with her, and Judah misses her already.

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Food and Family

January 20, 2010

Rich and Andrea came from Ohio to spend the long weekend with us. As usual, Judah and John hit it off and had a great time playing.

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Rich and Andrea are serious lovers of French food and wine, and Jared and I aspire to be cool like them. So on Saturday night, we went out to a great neighborhood French restaurant, and on Sunday we made an authentic, incredible French cassoulet (with pork, venison, lamb, and bacon). Excessive, I know, but delicious. And even though Rich wasn’t feeling well, he braved his nausea, stepped up to the plate (ha), and ate like a champ along with the rest of us. Such a martyr, that one.

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P.S. Isn’t my husband hot? Yowza.


Prayer for Haiti

January 14, 2010

We had a long discussion about Haiti today in my Bible study. Why God lets disasters happen, how we as Christians can be agents of aid and help and empathy and prayer.

Many of us have now heard Pat Robertson’s unfortunate remarks suggesting that Haiti is “cursed by God” because of a long-ago pact with the devil. “True story,” he insists, though how he could ever verify the truthfulness of legendary events that transpired 200 years ago, I’d love to know.

Donald Miller writes a fantastic response to Robertson’s comments. In it, Miller remarks that “it was sadly irresponsible for him to make such a devastatingly shocking statement in the context of great hurt. Can you imagine giving the eulogy at a funeral and starting out by saying ‘before I tell you about God’s grace, let me make it clear that little Johnny deserved to die because he stole candy from a store.’”

When I read remarks like these, I am reminded of the book of Job. Job’s friends just could not accept the fact that tragedy befalls those who do not deserve it. They could not wrap their minds around the concept of undeserved suffering. That is the crux of the book of Job, the oldest recorded book of the Bible. For centuries humankind has grappled with the same question: Does God allow bad things to happen to good people?

To people like Pat Robertson and Job’s friends, that answer is no. Why? Because it’s more comfortable for us to think that way. It places us in control of our lives. As long as I obey God and don’t commit any major sins, I won’t have to worry about death or disease or hardship or suffering. So the September 11 attacks and Hurricane Katrina and the tsunami and your son’s cancer—all these awful things that cause suffering—can apparently be blamed on the sins of either the sufferer or his nation.

Hindus and Buddhists have a word for this belief. It’s called karma. And this idea of a universe based on straight cause-and-effect stands in stark contrast to faith. (Shhh, don’t tell old Pat he’s apparently espousing Hindu doctrine).

Most of us realize the absurdity and the injustice of this theology. But we’re all of us tempted to espouse it once it a while because it’s easier than the alternative. On one hand, it means we don’t have to be guilted into action when tragedy befalls our friends and neighbors. And that flip side feels pretty good too—it’s nice to believe that our many blessings from God are direct results of our own righteousness and merit.

I don’t know why God allows tragedy to happen. But he does. And though we can never possibly begin to speculate why he does, there is one thing that never changes from one tragic situation to the next. Tragedy invites love. Sufferers always need it. When tragedy happens, God gives us an opportunity to respond it a way that reveals our character.

There is prayer and singing in the streets of Haiti. Singing. By people who’ve lost everything they had, when they had hardly anything to begin with.

Let this be an opportunity for us to respond in kind—with prayer, singing, and most of all, with love.


A New Year

January 12, 2010

We celebrated New Year’s Eve at my dad and Carol’s house in Jacksonville with lovely weather, an oyster roast, Thai fish soup, decadent dark chocolate cupcakes, and a variety of other tasty edibles. It was great!

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As commonly happens when my sister Jackie and I get together and have a camera around, there were a few gems waiting for me on the memory card:

"this tree is lovely. i shall call it lovely tree."

Don’t ask.

and here i display the fridge...

This one made me realize that Jackie and I might need to branch out in the hair department.

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The good news in all this silly photo business is that we got a photo of Greta Garbo herself, AKA “don’t-take-a-picture-of-me” Carol. And it’s a good one too. Darn her complexion for putting us to shame.

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I don’t even remember what we did New Year’s Day—it was that wonderful and relaxing—and the next day we came home to our cozy apartment in the chilly city.

Traveling is fantastic. But recovering at home has its perks, and I am positively giddy with the thought of staying put for the near future.


Christmas at the Beach

January 9, 2010

It’s been a week since we came home from Florida, and more than two weeks since we celebrated Christmas there, but I’m just now getting my act together to post some pictures. I had quite a bit of work to catch up on when we got back, and then Jared’s uncle and aunt stayed here for a couple of days while they got their daughters adjusted at school. But without further ado, I now present our official Christmas 2009 recap.

After a Christmas Eve service at my dad’s church in Jacksonville, we all drove the hour or so to the Palm Coast, where Carol had rented two condos for the 17 of us. Opening gifts was chaos, given the fact that there were eight children involved (six of them age four and under), and they all seemed to want to steal play with each other’s gifts. Below is Judah in his new dragon suit from Dad and Carol. He wasn’t all that thrilled about it, but the new (noisy) fire truck did make it all better.

Christmas week

The portion of the week that was not devoted to babies (such cute babies!) we spent playing games, particularly a Scrabble-type game called Take Two that we picked up from Jared’s family. Trey and my dad spent one afternoon using all the tiles to make a gigantic puzzle. We also spent some time in the heated pool, though it wasn’t quite heated enough, and most of us (two-year-olds included) ended up in the scalding hot tub.

One afternoon we visited a nearby marine park, where we got to see some dolphins swimming and doing their acrobatics. The kids were pretty excited about it. But for my money, it doesn’t get much cuter than seeing Judah and Lauren holding hands while strolling along. Below is a picture of my dad and Carol with six of their eight grandkids (the two babies were elsewhere).

Marine land to see dolphins

The weather was pretty chilly while we were there—nothing compared to Chicago’s current temperature of nine degrees, mind you—but our high never topped 60. Still, we enjoyed some great walks on the beach. The below picture (top middle) shows our condos overlooking the ocean. You can’t really tell, but Judah is attempting to throw a starfish back into the water. And Bricer is giving us his best cheese face, which is his typical smile.

Walk on the beach

Years ago, when Jared and I were first married, my family made a trip down to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. I have this memory of a breezy afternoon we spent on the beach, flying a kite. The only kids around back then were Skye and Trey, and they were just toddlers. The memory of that lovely afternoon has stuck with me, so it was fun to spend our last day in Palm Coast doing the same thing—flying a kite on the beach. It was a bit chillier this time, and there were more kids, but it was a precious afternoon nonetheless.

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We returned the next day to Jacksonville, where we spent three more nights at Dad and Carol’s house and rang in the new year with everyone but Rich and Andrea (who had already returned home). But more on that later.

Even though it wasn’t a white Christmas, and it might have been the loudest, craziest one yet, I though it was perfect.


Let It Snow!

December 22, 2009

The weather outside…

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But the fire…

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Have a safe, warm, and happy holiday!

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Giving Thanks…

December 7, 2009

For a fun, safe, relaxing trip to Florida.

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For a perfect afternoon at the beach.

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For the blessing it was to play, eat, hunt (guys), shop (girls), and spend time with Jared’s extended family (all 26 of us).

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For in-laws who love their grandbabies (and each other).

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For the beauty of family.


Say What?

November 19, 2009

Judah’s newest linguistic skills. Be sure to stick it out to the end.

My favorite parts:

  1. The fact that he gets so upset by saying “cookie,” because it reminds him he’s not currently eating one, that he can’t concentrate on the next two words.
  2. The three cheesy grins sprinkled throughout.
  3. The way he pronounces “cracker.”

Visits

November 18, 2009

The weekend before last we spent in Warren, Ohio, visiting my bro and sis-in-law. We always have too much fun (of the digestive variety) when we’re with Rich and Andrea. This time we went wine tasting at four different spots near where they live. Who knew northeastern Ohio had such great vineyards? I guess the climate is similar to the Côtes du Rhône, and they have a lot of French grapes from that area. Needless to say, it was great.

Here are Rich and Jared making eyes at each other over their wineglasses.

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This is my brother’s take on the photo:

For the record, the telepathic conversation Jared and I were having in that photo went like this:

Me: So I noticed you have both wine in your glass AND the bottle on your side of the table.
Jared: Did you also notice the bottle is empty?
Me: I think we need to buy another one.
Jared: We are SO on the same page. We could possibly eat more too. I’ve only had 4,000 calories today.
Me: I man-love you.

Judah always enjoys cousin time with John-John. They are just one year apart, which won’t feel like such a big gap when they’re, say, 44 and 45.

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This past weekend we hosted our friends Dave and Mel. If you remember, we went to see them over my birthday this year in KC, but this time, they came to our ‘hood. They bought a VW bus from someone in the area…a great excuse to come visit Chicago, if you ask me.

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What is this, blue steel?

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Dave and Mel are moving to India next year to launch a business-as-missions ministry. They are such talented people with a heart for the Kham Tibetans. We will miss them.

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But for the time being, we had a great time living it up and making new memories, and we will look forward to visiting them across the world!


Coookieees!

November 11, 2009

Someone loves them as much as his father. It’s frightening.

Don’t be fooled by his inattention to the cookies in the first part of the video. That’s only a result of distraction by the TV. He really did whine like that until I put them out of sight. I still can’t let him see cookies sitting out.